sensual message

Of all the types of massage, it is the sensual massage that requires utmost creativity and imagination. While the ordinary massage aims to strengthen and tone one’s body mechanism, sensual massage is much more exciting, and enticing than your average massage.
Unlike medically oriented therapeutic approaches, sensual massage is about rubbing your lover at the right place. It is important for people to know the difference between a simple back rub and sensual massage. While back rub is a powerful, short and effective way of getting rid of body tension, sensual massage is a languorous and erotic massage that involves a great deal of nudity and intimate touching.

For most people, the term sensual massage is always a double entendre. From a quick back rub to manual genital stimulation, sensual massage can mean so many things. But, a true sensual massage involves all the senses and is also form of communication through sight, sound, and touch. Whether you’ve been in a long relationship or just starting a new one, sensual massage is a great way to relax and open up to yourself to your partner. Aside from enhancing each individual’s ability to experience pleasure, sensual massage also strengthens the foundation of the relationship.

A prelude to sensual massage

When people think of sensual massage they often think of the back rub they give their partner before having sex. But, more than being a prelude to making love, sensual massage encompasses much much more. Being a rewarding, soothing, and stimulating experience, sensual massage can be deeply moving on an emotional level that brings two people closer through a powerful erotic experience.

Since you are about to put on record a very special and memorable experience, make sure to communicate first with your partner about your upcoming experience. If you are used to the traditional massage, it is very important for him or her to understand that this time, you’re going to do a massage that is far more different than that of the former. If you do feel that you have a mutual understanding and certain connection to what you are about to experience, start to make the moves that will set the mood for the anticipated sensual massage.

Having plans of being you lover’s exclusive sensual masseuse or masseur? Then, make sure to mentally take note of the very important items that will set the stage for a night of quiet, soothing communication by catering to each of the five senses. Aside from having on hand scented candles or incense that will create a romantic mood, also prepare romantic CDs that will help the both of you to relax with massage oil, clean towels, fresh flat sheets in a nice and clean room.

Before you begin your sensual massage venture, make sure that you both start clean by taking a romantic shower to remove oil and dirt on your skin. It’s up to you how you’re going to do it but be sure to bear in mind that sensual massage is as much a mind set as an actual massage, so better take your time and be sensual.

For the actual massage, begin with touching your partner in ‘non-sexual’ places slowly to set a sensual mood. Throughout the course, it is appropriate to massage the genitals if you both enjoy the teasing part. Although you are free to tease your partner with light touches and caresses wherever you like, don’t forget that the most important thing to remember is that sensual massage is designed to make you and your partner feel good, so concentrate on that goal and your partner will likely appreciate your efforts.

The massage aftermath

After the massage is finished, spend some time intimate time together. Although sensual massage may be the goal in and of itself, it may also lead to sex. Wherever you and your partner end up, it's always nice to cap off an intimate experience by spending some time talking and reflecting on the experience together.